Going with an elderly parent to the doctor is more than just driving them there. You’re often their support, translator and note-taker.
Before the visit, sit with them and list their main concerns: pain, sleep issues, confusion, appetite changes, mobility problems, mood, etc. Add your own observations gently, without making them feel attacked.
Carry all relevant documents—previous reports, scan results, current prescriptions, and a list of medicines with doses and timings.
During the consultation, politely fill in gaps if your parent forgets details, but also give them space to speak. Ask the doctor to explain diagnoses, treatment options and side effects in simple language.
Take notes on what to watch at home, when to come back, and which symptoms need urgent attention.
After the visit, help organise medicines, follow-up appointments, and any physio or tests prescribed. Emotional support is as important as physical help. Ageing is not easy; your calm presence can make a big difference.